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Embracing Modesty, No. 17

by Lisa on May 3, 2013

I had planned to share some hot weather ideas with you today, but it’s been c-c-cold here this week and we couldn’t bear to wear our summer things.  So it will wait until the weather gets warm, which I am not in any hurry for.

Instead I’ll share few of the things Grace and I wore this past week.  The other girls wore mostly outfits you’ve already seen.

Grace has really embraced the scarf.  In fact, she is making a YouTube video of ways she likes to tie them.  I’ll share that with you when it’s ready.  Otherwise this outfit is a comfy skirt and top.  Easy-easy!

And I can’t leave this picture without mentioning her shoes.  Aren’t they darling?!  You can snap off the flowers and change them to others.  Cuteness!

It’s really all about the shoes, am I right?

I don’t remember what we were doing on this next day, but her little shirt vest is so cute I just had to show you.  She always looks so pretty.

This next pic is what I wore one day when I was running into town.  Just an easy day.

It’s finally getting warm enough for me to pull out my favorite Born sandals.  They are 10 years old, but I still love ‘em!

Even though you have seen many of these individual pieces already, mixing them up in new ways is what we love to do.

I hope you’re having a great time finding new ways to wear your things.  We will get to those warm weather ideas asap!

Check out the rest of this series in our Embracing Modesty Gallery!

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I’m in a post-turkey day fog.  Between the amazing day we had on Thanksgiving with friends and Black Friday shopping at 5AM with my four daughters and my friend Sara….I am beat!

But a good night of sleep helped and now I think only one nap today will catch me up.

I have a couple of things I want to tell you about so you don’t miss the excitement around here.

1.  Our daughter Grace released her second book yesterday!  Whoop! Whoop! Dancing around my bedroom!!!

Her book, “Never”, is for sale on Amazon.  It would be a great stocking stuffer for an older teen, young adult.  Or if you have a niece/nephew you can’t find a gift for…this is an idea!  This book is not for young children.  I want to be clear about that.

It’s a story that shows how hard it is to hold to your convictions and never compromise.  The main characters are challenged in ways that could be upsetting to younger kids.  You can read more about it on her blog.

Through Monday you can get 25% off if you buy it here or you can get a signed copy here.

2. We are having free shipping on the shop through Cyber Monday for orders over $50!

Now through Monday at midnight we are offering free shipping on orders over $50.  If you order $50 worth of product just put the words “Free Shipping” in the message box and we will refund the shipping costs.

Our Christmas stockings are our biggest seller during the holidays.

And we have a new style of stocking this year that is really cute!

Our hottest sellers under $10 are the Mason Jar Lids, Zippered Pouches and Chalkboard Labels.  They’d be great for teachers, neighbors, anyone you need to buy a small, special gift for.

Thanks so much for being such a source of support and friendship to our family this past year.  I am thankful for each of you!

Filling the Gap

by Lisa on June 14, 2012

Have I told you all that our oldest daughter Grace has written and published her first novel?  We are all really excited about it, so I asked her to tell you a little about it.  If you want to know more you can find her at her blog, J Grace Pennington.

In my “Firmament” series, each book has a specific purpose. Showing the importance of responsibility or trust, or explaining the significance of being made in the image of God, or demonstrating the foolishness of allowing the end to justify the means. But there’s also a single, specific purpose behind the series as a whole.

Perhaps you’ve noticed something about the young-adult fiction market: it’s sadly lacking in books that are both clean and well-written.

That’s the purpose behind the series. I want to help fill the gap in young-adult fiction between the well-crafted, demonic, sensual, graphic stories, and the sloppy, boring, squeaky clean ones. Within this gap, stories exist but are so few and far between that the gap echoes when you stand inside it and cry for good books.

A few days ago, I nervously but excitedly placed the first “Firmament”novel in the gap. It’s not enough to even begin to fill the gap, nor are the seventeen other books in the series that shall henceforth follow it. It’s not perfect, but it’s clean, and if my test readers are any indication, it’s not badly written for a first novel, by the grace of God alone. And it is my prayer that it can be a very small step towards filling the gap.

I don’t just want it to be full, either. I want it to overflow, for there to be such a surplus of good, fun, clean books that you are overwhelmed by the choices. That you can’t decide whether to spend your money on my novel or on Aubrey Hansen’s or on one of the other up and coming authors who I just know you’ll be hearing about soon.

“Firmament: Radialloy” may have some mistakes, but you won’t find any witchcraft, sensuous teenage romances, graphic violence, extreme darkness, rebellious children, or foul language in its pages. And that is a rarity I wish didn’t exist in today’s literature. I want that state of things to end.

Will you stand in the gap with me?

 

You can order Grace’s book through the Amazon link below or get a signed copy through her blog.

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Go South to the Desert Road

by Grace on October 29, 2011

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You know how sometimes you read through your Bible, perusing a familiar book you’ve read a dozen times before, and suddenly you stop — you stare — and you think, “Who put that there? It wasn’t there last time I read this. Or at least I didn’t see it quite this way…”

In my journey through Acts with my Bible Study Fellowship group, I’ve discovered and rediscovered many stories, incidents, and snippets of wisdom. So far, my favorite has been a little story of a man named Philip and an Ethiopian servant.

When people talk about their favorite Bible characters, Philip isn’t someone who comes up a lot. He didn’t kill any giants, he didn’t have super strength, he didn’t part the Red Sea — but he did something that, for many of us, is even harder.

He obeyed.

Philip was a deacon of the early apostolic church, and was one of their early missionaries, often referred to as “Philip the Evangelist.” After leaving Jerusalem, he stepped out in faith to preach the good news of Christ in Samaria, where an enormous revival followed his teachings. So great was the work he did there that Peter and John themselves came to Samaria from Jerusalem to see exactly what was happening, and to encourage him in his task. Things were going amazingly for this guy.

Then one day, in the middle of all this, God spoke to Philip, saying “Go south to the road — the desert road — that goes down from Jerusalem to Gaza.” That was it. No explanations, nothing. Just leave your great, grand, fruitful work in Samaria, leave Peter, leave John, and go down to a quiet, dusty, hot desert road and stand there. No further instructions, just go.

And you know what? Philip went.

He walked down the road as God had commanded, and along the way he met an Ethiopian servant who was reading the book of Isaiah, perplexed as to its meaning. Philip explained to him who Christ was, the man believed and was baptized, and then God miraculously swept Philip away, and the Ethiopian went on his way rejoicing.

If you were Philip, would you have obeyed the call? Would you follow such a crazy command, leave the obvious work for something as mundane as standing in the sun on a desert road? I don’t know if I would.

But God knows the plans He has for each person. He cared about the Ethiopian, and wanted Philip to go out of his way to minister to the man. He has work for you and I as well. Next time He asks me to do something crazy, I want to remember Philip, and follow his example.

10 Things I Don’t Do…

by Lisa on October 13, 2011

1. I don’t drink coffee. 

I don’t know why.  I just never did.  James doesn’t drink it either, so it’s not even something we think about until we have guests…or I talk to my friend Angela.

2. I don’t wear pants.

Most of you know this about me already.  If you want to know more you can read my post on modesty.

3. I don’t celebrate Halloween. 

Our family believes that Halloween is a celebration of evil.  I don’t have any desire to say what anyone else should do, but for us it would compromise what Christ stands for.  We don’t do alternatives either, that seems no different.

4. I don’t eat olives….

….or tomatoes or pickles or pecans or brussel sprouts.  OK, so I’m a bit of a picky eater.  But if I came to your house and you made me any of these foods I would eat them and you would never know I didn’t like it.  I do know how to be polite.

5. I don’t follow sports.

This one is for my friend Lisa who keeps Tweeting me about baseball games and other sports chatter.  It’s another thing that James doesn’t do either, so it’s just not a part of our lives.

6. I don’t remember movies.

It doesn’t matter if I’ve seen it once or ten times, I won’t remember the details.  It drives James crazy, but I think of it as a good thing.  I can watch a movie a bunch of times and enjoy it every time (unless it’s awful of course).

7. I don’t like to hold hands.

This one James and I do not have in common.  He’d probably hold my hand all of the time, but I don’t like it.  It makes me feel overheated and uncomfortable.  If I try to hold someone’s hand while I’m walking I get all off balance and can’t walk.  It’s not like I fall over paralyzed or anything.  It’s more like my legs are tied together.  No coordination.

8. I don’t carry keys.

I’m not sure how this  got started.  I used to carry keys.  Then one day I just stopped.  If I’m driving I have my car key, but nothing else.  I don’t even have a key to my house.  I very rarely need it.  Either someone is home or I’m with other people that have a key.

9. I don’t ever want to live anywhere else.

This is the house I want to live in until I die.  It’s old and quirky and needs a lot of work, but I love it.

10. I don’t know where I will be next week.

We have been trying to put together a trip for Grace to go see some of her friends in Georgia.  If it works out, and that’s a very big if, we would be driving there next week.  If you are along the path from Texas to Georgia let me know and maybe we can stop and say hello!

What’s on your list of don’ts?

Following Dreams

by Grace on October 6, 2011

by Grace

They say that you should follow dreams,
Abandon all else, them to seek,
And yet to me it always seems
That somehow this idea is weak.
What dreams to follow?  For ought we know
A dream may leave when just we start
To follow it to death, and lo,
Another dream is in our heart.

A girl may dream of horses first
When she is young, and life begins
Determination fuels her thirst
To ride, to race – compete and win.
As girlhood’s years unfold with grace,
Her equine fancies fade away.
A dream of love is in their place,
And seeking it, she spends her days.

A young boy’s dream may change each day,
Inventor, actor, cowboy, cop,
And each in turn dictates his play.
Till one dream rises to the top.
And as he grows into a man
His dreams now fill with law and courtrooms,
Soon these things form all his plans,
Ambitious lawyer he becomes.

But if the girl, with all her trying,
Finds she is not to be a wife?
And sorrowfully her dream is dying,
What now the purpose of her life?
And if the boy, with years of study,
Finds too late it’s not for him?
His dream grows tired, and faint, and muddy,
And his future dark and dim.

But what if they, during their youth,
Had sought another path for life,
Had sought it from the Source of Truth,
And followed that through joy and strife?
Instead of forging dreams their own
Had found them in the Greater Will
Which dreamed for them a greater one,
A dream from His Great Plan distilled?

The problem is, which dream to follow.
First or last?  Or something more,
A greatness that turns our dreams sallow
In light of awe that makes it soar.
The answer may not be so far,
Perhaps, when our perspective is,
The right dreams are
Not ours, but His.

P.S.  My lovely friend BushMaid wrote a beautiful poem with the same message on her blog!

Red Rain

by Grace on September 22, 2011

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A very dear friend of mine, the talented Aubrey Hansen, recently wrote and self-published her very first book — a Christian sci-fi novella entitled Red Rain.  I’ve had the privilege of reading several versions of the book, as well as narrating the audiobook, which she is offering as a free download until October 31st.

If you’re looking for a well-written, clean and exciting book for all ages, this is just the story for you.  I highly, highly recommend it!

To find out more about Aubrey’s writing, including Red Rain and the sci-fi series we are co-authoring, or to download the audiobook, visit her website!

Boys are from Mars

by Grace on September 16, 2011

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Aliens.  Most of us girls, at some time or another, knew that boys were aliens.

I mean, they’re not like us.  They’re strange and unusual creatures who are more interested in knives and hunting and explosions and Star Wars than really interesting things like tea and shopping and Jane Austen movies.  They don’t cry very much.  Then, sometimes, when we grow older, we start to like them.  That’s a bit scary.

They’re obviously extra-terrestrial.  We’d better just avoid them altogether.

Because guy/girl relationships can be so tricky, I used to feel like running and hiding when any boy came within ten yards of me.  I didn’t like making eye contact.  I hesitated to call any boy a friend.  When dealing with a guy, I kept the conversation to really engaging topics like the weather and the time of day.

I was trying to be careful.  I wanted to protect my heart, and save every part of myself, including my emotions, for my future husband.  I wanted to do right.  But I was forgetting one little thing.

Boys are people too.

When I was about sixteen my mom shared this information with me.  Yes, we must be ever so careful to guard our hearts.  Yes, men are different from us, and created by God to fill an entirely different role.  But they’re people, like us, who God loves very much.

I’m all for safeguards and boundaries when it comes to dealing with young men.  Things like not spending one-on-one time with guys or not sharing my heart with them are boundaries that I hold to strictly.

But within those boundaries, we can be friends.  Co-laborers and brothers and sisters in Christ.  We can encourage each other in the faith and help each other.  Men aren’t as strange as we think.  They have feelings and hopes and dreams and their own relationships with God, just like we do.

I find that boundaries and personal rules for interaction actually make things more relaxed and easier.  I call guys “sir” and “Mr.” much of the time.  Rather than making things awkward or formal, it makes them simpler and more comfortable.  When I need to email a young man, I always forward all the emails to my dad.  That way I don’t have to worry about things getting inappropriate or foolish.

Some people think rules like these will hinder their relationships with guys.  I’ve found that it strengthens them.  Any true friendship has to be built on respect, and if a boy does not want to respect my boundaries, he’s not the kind of friend I want.

Everyone’s policies will be different, because every person is different and has different needs and tendencies.  But as children of the King of Kings, we need to remember that He has a plan and a work and great love and abounding grace for each and every one of us.

Even boys.

Tetris

by Grace on August 26, 2011

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Have you ever played the video game Tetris?  The game where there are seven different sized blocks falling, and you have to maneuver them so that they fit together, perfectly, and when you have a solid line it disappears?

I’ve been playing it since I was about three years old, first on the family computer, then my iPod, and now on my phone.  I have a special fondness for the game — maybe it has something to do with being slightly OCD.  I like to get things to fit together nicely.

But until last week, I never reached the end of the game.

To tell the truth, I didn’t even know it had an end, because I could never get past level eleven.  I didn’t play it all the time — just when waiting at the chiropractor, or in the bathroom, or on a road trip late at night.  Still, you’d think that since I’d been playing for eighteen years, I would have gotten to the end before now.

But I didn’t.  Because there was a problem with the way I played.

With each level of the game, the pieces fall faster and faster, making it harder and harder to tell where to put them.  Actually, the first level is rather slow.  The blocks move along the screen, one pixel at a time, at their own sweet pace.  Fortunately, there is an option to speed up a piece once you’ve rotated and moved it so that it will fall into the right place.

So, for the first few levels, I’d do just that.  Get them where I want them quickly and decisively, and then hurtle them down as quickly as they’ll go.  Of course, I’d stop once I got to level six or seven.  They started falling too fast at that point.

But try as I might, I never got past level eleven.

Recently, at long last, I figured out what I was doing wrong.  In speeding up the early levels, I was making it impossible for myself to think fast enough to move on to the lightning-paced levels beyond.  Once I left the blocks to fall at the pace the programmers chose for them, I was able to increase speed gradually, building my skills from the ground level up.

Before I realized it, I was on level fifteen, moving pieces by instinct, so quickly that I hardly had time to think about where they should go.  And when I cleared the last required row, I received a “game over” screen, and a notification of my new high score.

To learn to speed up, I had to learn to slow down.

Life can be the same way sometimes.  I think this step is going too slowly, and if I can just speed it up and get through it quickly, then I can move on to the next phase.  But that doesn’t work.

Each step comes after another.  Every level in the game of life has something to teach us, and speeding them up will only make us fail later on.  But embracing each stage as it comes gives us room to build on what we’ve learned, and take it one step further.

Remind Me Later

by Grace on August 19, 2011

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I type happily away on my computer, writing my current novel, engrossed in a scene of drama, betrayal, fear, doubt, and growing tension — all ready to swallow my character up in a maw of darkness, or give way in a moment of light.  The story climax approaches — the stakes are beyond the stratosphere — he’s giving in — he’s — he’s –

Then suddenly the vision is lost, and my eyes are filled with a large gray box with blue borders reading, “Your computer may be in danger!  An update is ready for McDonald anti-virus protection.  Would you like to receive updates now?”

Underneath are three options:

Receive Updates!

Remind Me Later

Never Remind Me

I don’t want to receive updates!  For one thing, it will take seven hours and twenty-three minutes for the thing to download, and then it will have to restart my computer, and then I will constantly be receiving notifications about DANGEROUS sites and programs that I already trust completely.  For another thing, my internet is turned off right now, so I couldn’t receive them even if I wanted to.

I really would rather not be reminded later either.  I don’t want the updates, and the box always manages to pop up at the most inopportune times.  Why do they think it’s a good idea to remind me later anyway?  “Oh, right!  Updates!  Thank goodness you reminded me, I had forgotten all about that!”

In a bold moment, I allow my cursor to hover over the Never Remind Me button.  This cycle has been going on for months!  Every week, the box pops up at me!  It’s time to end my misery with one courageous click!  Time to step out in the faith that I will NEVER want to receive updates, and breathe the free, sweet air unfettered by weekly reminders that I neither want nor need — I must end my bondage!

But in the moment of decision, I shrink yet again, hating myself for my cowardice.  It’s just this:  that word “never.”  If it said “Don’t remind me for a really long time” or “Give me a break from reminders for about three months” I would do it in a heartbeat.  But “never”?  Um…. that’s an awfully long time.  What if I want updates someday?  How will I ever remember that my computer might be in DANGER without being reminded?  Will the fatal click doom me to a future of a computer so laced with viruses that I cry in agony, “Why didn’t I receive updates when I had the chance?  Curse the day in which I determined to never be reminded!”

This vision, be it prophetic or pathetic, stops me every time.  Never… that’s just not wise.  After all you never can tell when you might decide you do need those updates.

Cowed into submission once again, I meekly click the safest option, just as I have done week after week after week after week.

Remind Me Later.